Ask Blush: Where is the G spot?

Q: “What’s the best way to look for a G spot? And how do I know when I’ve found it?”

A: You can stimulate the G spot by putting pressure on the front wall of the vagina, anywhere from 1 to 3 inches inside (depending on the individual). To reach it, insert two fingers and then curl them forward, with the curve of your fingers facing toward your or your partner’s belly button.

How to Stimulate the G Spot

The G-spot responds best to steady outward strokes and focused pressure. This is because the G-spot is where the vagina meets the erectile tissue lining the urethra. You will recognize G-spot toys as they always have a forward curve to create pressure on this sensitive area.

long g spot vibe with a bulbous head

Finding the right spot to stimulate—and the right level of pressure—for any given lover can take some experimentation and practice. If the G-spot is hard to reach with your fingers, G spot vibe like the rechargeable Noje G Slim is the perfect toy to help. The G Slim has a large, bulbous head and a long handle that makes it easy to focus pressure wherever it feels best. (And it works as great external clitoral vibe too!)

What Does G Spot Play Feel Like?

As the person receiving the stimulation becomes more aroused, and there’s more pressure on the G spot, they may feel like they need to pee. This happens because there’s neurological cross-talk between the urethra and the vagina. Most people will pass through this feeling without any pee leaving the body because part of the function of the urethral sponge (beyond pleasure) is to block the flow of urine when someone is aroused. The urethral sponge becomes engorged and closes off the urethra.

Explore & Find G Spot Pleasure

All of this may sound a bit clinical, but we encourage you to just play and explore. Try to combine sensations, like using a vibe internally and one on the clitoris at the same time. Most people with vulvas find it easier to orgasm when their clitoris is stimulated too! 

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Join Us! We are Celebrating Green Sex Toys & Planting Trees!

New York, NY – April 11, 2019 – Blush has led the way in truly sustainable sex toys with their Gaia® collection; made of recyclable, biodegradable plant-based plastic sourced from corn.

New Sustainable Sex Toys

Blush has just launched a Gaia Eco Bullet in three colors, and a point-of-purchase display that comes with a free floor tester. The Gaia designs are classic in form, feature strong motors. These toys are body safe and easy to clean!

“At Blush, we seek to make great pleasure products using sustainable materials,” says CEO Verna Meng. “Bioplastic is a perfect choice for vibrators since its nonporous, making it completely safe, clean for use in the body, and biodegradable.”

When promoting sex toy sustainability, Blush defines this as materials sourced from botanical elements, using fewer greenhouse gasses in production, and having the lightest end-of-life impact on the environment. Gaia pleasure products biodegrade quickly with the help of industrial recycling facilities. They will also biodegrade naturally in landfills after a few centuries.

The Blush commitment to being earth-friendly is also evident in the Gaia packaging, which is made of recycled paper, with no plastic inserts.

Planting Trees

Together, with the participation of adult retailers who sell Gaia vibrators, Blush will be planting one tree for every online store that carried Gaia and shares their URL. Blush will also plant one tree for every store that shares a photo of their Gaia products on their shelves.

Retailers can participate in the Blush tree planting initiative on the Blush Twitter and Instagram accounts. The promotion is taking place via social media (#GaiaGreenTeam) and runs through Earth Day, April 22, 2019.

Go Green Initiatives

Blush is also announcing their Go Green companywide initiative. All employees who buy or lease electric cars, install TESLA solar panels in their homes will receive company paid cash incentives.

“Climate change is a real issue,” says Blush COO Eric Lee. I want to do my best to protect the future of all children. I am hoping with this initiative I can influence a few people in our small company and by announcing this to our industry I can influence other business owners to also do something similar. Together as an industry, we can make a difference.”

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Blush Wins Pleasure Products Company of the Year

XBIZ Award logo

Blush Novelties is honored with a 2019 XBIZ Award for Pleasure Product Company of the Year (Sex Toys). Held January 17, 2019, the XBIZ Awards an annual comprehensive showcase of outstanding achievements across the adult industry.

“We are absolutely honored,” says Blush Marketing Director and Resident Sex Educator Ducky DooLittle. “Thank you to our friends and fellow professionals, for recognizing our efforts to create beautiful pleasure products that truly meet the needs of consumers. We are also grateful for the monumental support of XBIZ. We look forward to another amazing year with our partners and cannot wait to share what we have in store for 2019.”

The 17th annual XBIZ Awards was held Thursday evening at the spectacular Westin Bonaventure in downtown Los Angeles. The highly esteemed awards ceremony is a star-studded affair, celebrating the top performers, companies, technology, and products in the adult entertainment industry.

Blush Novelties is a company committed to ethics at every level, from manufacturing to retail. By operating its own factory, quality control is kept tight and held to a high standard. More importantly, Blush’s factories operate completely different from other overseas factories. “We make over 95% of the products we sell,” explains Blush Novelties’ Chief Operating Officer, Eric Lee. “We find it very difficult to trust another factory to care about our customers and the end user as much as we do. Our thought process is not about cutting corners, it’s about how we can make a better product. We do this because we can and take pride in all of our creations.” Blush’s elite, ethically-minded status in global pleasure products manufacturing has also lent Blush to offer its reputation and adherence to product quality through private labeling and OEM projects for other companies.

In addition, the company offers a free monthly online class series, Blush U, which DooLittle curates and hosts. In addition to product-specific information, DooLittle delivers pleasure-based sex education and sales tips to help retail partners serve and interact better with their customers on the sales floor.

For more information, visit; the site is a wholesale-only site. Consumers may purchase Blush Novelties’ products at retailers around the world.

Blush Fundraising Campaign to Benefit Homeless LGBTQ Youth

New York, NY – June 4, 2018 – Blush has embarked on a campaign to fundraise and empower homeless LGBTQ youth.

Statistics show that 40% of homeless youth identify as LGBTQ, with 68% of those young people citing family rejection as the major contributing factor to their homelessness.

Established in 2002, the Ali Forney Center has grown to become the largest agency dedicated to LGBTQ homeless youths in the country—assisting nearly 1,400 youths per year through a 24-hour Drop-In Center in New York City. The center provides over 70,000 meals annually, medical and mental health services through an on-site clinic, and a scattered site housing program.

The organization’s namesake, Ali Forney, was a gender-nonconforming teen who fled his home at 13. He entered the foster care system where he was bounced around to several homes, sadly experiencing beatings and abuse. Ali ended up living on the streets at the age of 15. Despite his hard circumstances, Ali was dedicated to helping other young people and publicly advocated for the safety of homeless LGBT youth. Tragically, in December of 1997, Ali was murdered in Harlem—shot in the head and left for dead.

Supporting the efforts of the Ali Forney Center is perfectly aligned with the Blush mission stating that all bodies are beautiful, worthy and deserving of celebration and pleasure.

“We are a company that insists upon recognizing the rights of all individuals. We understand that meeting the basic needs of a human being must come before pleasure. Knowing that from a young age lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, transsexual, queer, questioning, intersex, asexual, and pansexual youth face extraordinary obstacles means that we must go above and beyond in our efforts to care for them.” says Blush’s Resident Sex Educator Ducky DooLittle. “We are so grateful that the Ali Forney Center exists, and we are proud to fundraise for them.”

Together, with the participation of adult distributors and retailers who sell Avant Pride, Blush will donate $1 to the Ali Forney Center. The promotion take place the entire month of June 2018. 


The Blush philosophy is that all bodies are beautiful, worthy and deserving of celebration and pleasure. Our team combines innovation and creativity to create pleasure products that fit your desires while meeting our high health and wellness standards. Price, quality and your experience are our highest priority.


Our mission is to protect LGBTQ youths from the harms of homelessness and empower them with the tools needed to live independently.

Blush Sponsors Women To The Front II Event in Brooklyn, NY

Due to the glass ceiling that still today creates an unbalanced display of genders in art institutions, the mission of Women To The Front II is raising their voices to equalize this proportion and shatter the glass ceiling. Through art and music, they built a space to inspire and empower the upcoming female-identified generations and art appreciators. WTTF is an immersive exhibition of music, art, video and performance, celebrating and showcasing women in the arts and support women in business.

Blush was one of the major sponsors of the event because this is what we stand for. We stand for empowerment, kindness, love, and equality.

The creators, Daniela “Zoe” Croci and Terry Lovette were united in 2017 by their shared vision of a future where a woman’s success is not limited by their gender. In collaborative practice, these culture-makers are creating opportunities for women in the arts and music and supporting woman-owned business through the Women To The Front curatorial project.

The two powerful women behind this event, Terry Lovette (L) and Zoe Map (R).

(Photo by: @neesmithonzeur)

The night started with a brief introduction and a discussion with brilliant women identifying creative professionals. The panel consisted of five individuals from various creative industries. The conversation centered around personal experiences in their respective fields and changes they are part of our hope to see in the future.

The conversation was followed by performances in the main room by Terry Lovette, Ivy, LADAMA, and Sandflower Power were well-received by the attendees while some enjoyed FUEL by Amy Gardner, Premiere of “Javier Ninja, The Heir” by Zoe Map, andThe Mixtape: Stay Black , Baby by Jasmine Lynea in the viewing room. A few women-owned businesses were also present during the event.

Ivy and Terry Lovette performing a song and dance number together.

As for the Blush table, people very much enjoyed getting to feel the sample products in real life over just seeing photos on the internet. Throughout the night, Blush raffled off some goodies for them, which everybody was excited for. Everybody who came by the booth had big smiles on their faces and very much enjoyed talking about our company, products, and their experiences.

Our display along with the raffle prizes!

Our Brand Ambassador explaining the goods to gallery staff.

The Blush philosophy.

Our Avant display!

One of our raffle winners, Lila.

The event was already successful before it even began because of their mission to empower women — that they are capable of living their dream and achieving success in this world. Everybody learned a lot and had a great time that night, so there’s no wonder that there will be a next time.

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