A BDSM Guide for Beginners

When I first joined the BDSM community four years ago, I simply viewed it as a way to make sex more enjoyable. Based on media representations, BDSM brought to mind ballgags, blindfolds, floggers, and latex—I never could have imagined all of the ways it could benefit me. It’s helped me reach new levels of vulnerability, emotional intimacy, and trust, and […]