When I first joined the BDSM community four years ago, I simply viewed it as a way to make sex more enjoyable. Based on media representations, BDSM brought to mind ballgags, blindfolds, floggers, and latex—I never could have imagined all of the ways it could benefit me. It’s helped me reach new levels of vulnerability, emotional intimacy, and trust, and […]
Sex toys are a fantastic tool for sexual health. They can help spice up a relationship and are great to use solo as well. With so many types of sex toys, gadgets, and lubes out there it can be hard to know where to start. If you haven’t used a toy before, it’s a wonderful way to get to know […]
People of all genders and sexualities can and do enjoy strap-on sex. Strap-on sex utilizes a combination of a harness and dildo. Using toys for the first time in the bedroom can be intimidating at first for many! It took me until my 20’s to finally begin using sex toys with partners, and for the longest time, I had no […]
Anal play is an exciting and pleasurable experience with a variety of different toys to assist! No matter what sensations you’re looking to stimulate, there’s an option to please. But before you dive in, it’s important to remember the following so you can make the most out of your anal play. Lube, lube, and more lube! Lubrication is a fantastic […]
Laughing is the purest expression of joy, and we all need as much joy as we can get these days. We spend so much time each day consuming media and content that make our lips turn upwards and our bellies erupt with vibrations of laughter. If you’re wondering whether taking that free spirit into the bedroom is a no-no, we’re […]
